“Freelance Coach” Title Ain’t Required To Be a Big Deal

Freelance Writing Coach Title Not Needed

My Facebook is filled with sponsored posts from successful entrepreneurs who’ve made thousands by educating others on their topic of choice (and also have these incredible head shots).

Sometimes I joke about people who “coach on how to become a coach,” but many of these folks are whipsmart business people who bring value to followers every day. Most of these people tend to reject the word “coach” as part of their job titles.

Let’s get real here: I’m never going to be one of those people. You may not be that type either. And that’s perfectly fine.

When folks ask me about freelancing or writing tips, I talk about how I got started. I even did a massive multi-part blog post about it.

But I like bragging about other people – a mentor, a friend. Someone who’s been in the biz longer or who are kick-butt guides in business, writing or freelancing.

Tons of fabulous content and courses on how to become a freelancer (particularly freelance writing) is already out there. I’m not going to add to what’s already an overwhelmingly massive bucket load of tips.

You may be thinking, “Well, *psh* why not? You blog about freelancing all the time! Why not make a course or do consultations?”

It’s true: I can’t stop talking about this stuff. Whenever I get an email asking for advice or a quote for a blog post or book, I’m deeply flattered. There’s just one thing:

Folks out there are way better at this than me.

Don’t Call Me “Coach”

This isn’t me downing myself or succumbing to impostor syndrome. I’m a firm believer in bringing my own voice to the freelancing biz.

I love writing about blogging, social media, working from home and all that fun stuff. But if you ask me the best way to get started, I’ll talk about the people whose advice has guided me for the past several years.

I’m just not a freelancing coach.

Working from home can be lonely. My need for online colleagues, plus my miserly ways of building a business has paid off.

Because I craved so much free information and advice from different people about starting a business and being a freelance writer, I’ve gotten to know some incredible people.

If I can get the info out there for next to nothing, why should I force you to download yet another course about how to make it as a freelancer or charge you for personal coaching?

Are there people out there throwing money at me for my wisdom? Well, no.

futurama meme

This Futurama meme is a favorite of mine.

Don’t You Forget About Me

This has become an inner struggle, because I know consulting is a great way to make money. Plus, I’ve noticed my infrequent posts tend to make MFL a bit forgettable at times.

I’d love to be one of the first blogs you think of when it comes to freelancing. But I’d rather just give you the info, and if there’s a course or book that’s fabulous enough to pick up, I’ll direct you to it.

The “secret” to having a successful business is learning that it’s not all about you. About making a difference while making money. (Tweet that goodness!)

So instead of creating e-courses or charging you for my advice, I’m going to give it to you. And often you’ll be hearing the sage advice of someone else.

There it is. That’s how to give back – recommending others.

I’m that strange sales gal at the department store who tells you to go to next door to a competitor for a better deal on jeans.

Besides, I’m working to build my speaking cred, so I’m always available for presentations or workshops for nitty-gritty teaching. Plus, I’m working on a book about being a successful entrepreneur with anxiety.

Don’t Stop Giving

In 2016, expect a couple of new things, especially if you get my blog updates via e-mail.

Some possible additions: roundups of my favorite blog posts or articles I’ve read or an epic post/new opt-in list of the resources and people who’ve made My Freelance Life the little blog that could.

Am I forgetting something? What can I do at MFL to serve you more? What topics will get you talking and sharing?

Things are always crazy this time of year, so I appreciate you as always for reading and commenting.

10 thoughts on ““Freelance Coach” Title Ain’t Required To Be a Big Deal

  1. I’ve been avoiding the ‘coach’ title as well. However, I keep falling into the role! I’ve worked with writers, new bloggers, and site owners in single sessions to help them build their web presence, find markets to write for, etc. Then they usually contact me for another session, then another, and so on. I think this year I’m going to start offering packages of consultations…but I feel like there is no term other than ‘coaching’ to best describe the services. It’s a work-in-progress for now, but I’m glad to hear you share similar sentiments about the term. It is quite cringe-worthy.

    1. You are a wealth of information Tara! Usually people ask me for some advice every once in a while and that’s it! But if you keep getting asked over and over that’s a great sign! You will be definitely someone I’ll refer to others.

  2. To think I was inspired to come over to your blog today because I wanted to discuss urban fiction LOL, and I found THIS GEM.

    Seriously, Williesha you’re reading my mind and I felt alone in this. The Universe is being too good to me in 2016. I’ve had trouble with this title a lot too. I’ve gone so far as to call myself a mentor rather than a coach. I just don’t like the word coach. I really love helping people and see myself going in that direction. I’ve even stopped actively bringing on freelance clients in anticipation of it which is scaring me financially. LOL. But, at the same time, I’m so jaded by the MLM coaching schemes out there I haven’t been able to commit. I don’t want to “sell a dream”. I just enjoy teaching people things that I’ve learned through trial and error. I’m glad I’m not the only person who struggles with the ethics of it all.

    On another note: I could be reading into your RT too deep, buuuuuttt, have you ever thought about writing urban fiction for fun? I’m toying with the idea. At least my book would be void of errors. LOL

    1. Hahaha I’ll be honest – I’m not urban enough for urban fiction but I am working on a book!! I’m so glad this resonated with you!

      1. LOLLLL. Trust me… I know how you feel. I’m taking a stab at urban fiction right now. I cannot get the language right. When are you publishing? Would love to learn more, let me know when it’s out so I can support.

  3. Hi Williesha,

    I think you are the one who ultimately chooses what services to offer, not others. If you don’t feel like a ‘coach’ and you don’t like the title nor the feeling, well… that’s it then. 🙂 I have given a try to work as a SEO specialist years ago, but it wasn’t that great, I don’t even love Google that much and I know there are better people in that area than myself to take care of a client’s website in. I definitely treasured the experiences and I use them often when I write about SEO and Marketing for my current blogging clients in addition to research and interviews. I do SEO for my blogs, too. But… I’m not a SEO specialist. And that’s it.

    As for coaching, I feel I’ll probably do that in the future, but only in those areas I know I can give others something they won’t find elsewhere (i.e. character blogging). Some consulting will suffice in the other areas, but I know which fellow freelancers to mention instead of me if it comes to phone mentoring (not my thing). 🙂

    Nice post, Willi. Great food for thought!

    ~ Luana

    1. This is spot on Luana – I’m glad to hear you’ve moved away from what you weren’t passionate about and moved to what you wanted to do.

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